FAQS
Where are you located?
My home base is currently in Berkeley, CA - a 15 min drive from San Francisco. I have a few different dungeon spaces that I conduct sessions from in Oakland. I can meet in a 4-5 star hotel of my choice, if I don't have access to a dungeon or that is your preferred meeting place. Other locations I frequently visit: Santa Cruz, CA - Maui, HI - Austin, TX.Sign up to my newsletter to stay up to date on tour locations. What time of the day can I book a session?
My days of operation are 7 days a week, 10am - 8pm. What are your limits & boundaries?
My limits include any illegal activities or services. I DO NOT offer full service, roman or brown showers, FTT, blood play or switching/subbing. Chit chatting / socializing outside of commitments will be ignored, I only chat on paid platforms if you wish to socialize outside of logistical matters. You may message me on loyalfans HERE.I welcome players of all experience level and backgrounds! If you are new - you're in the right place. Exploring your desires with a professional who can hold space in a non judgmental + safe space is the perfect environment to get an introduction to kink/bdsm. AND being nervous is completely natural, but just know.. with me there is zero expectation // high possibility.I recommend booking a dinner & domination session or longer session to get in some social time before entering play space to get to know each other more & break the ice. I am new to BDSm and not sure what to expect.. I am nervous to begin.
I want to be a good submissive. How can i make sure to please you?
I adore submissives that are naturally giving, respectful, grounded & generous. I expect my subs to treat me with the highest level of selfless servitude. Refer to the etiquette section HERE to prepare for session date.Before applying:
Read instructions carefully, read my website/faqs/policies/etiquette section. Study my social media to see what my interests/likes/dislikes are. SEND A GIFT to show your devotion : this is not a requirement, but is a token of appreciation that will let me know you are thinking of me and have my attention. My favorite gifts are self care & fetish wear. Check out my wishlist HERE.Read “How to Behave in the Presence of a ProDomme” by Simone Justice.Have your I.D & payment for introductory call ready to send.
How did you get into Domination?
Refer to In Person Submission section HERE to read a little bit more about my journey. Will you ever switch with me?
No, I only switch in my personal life. I will not entertain any sub that does not respect this. What is your backgrounD/education?
1:1 Mentorship with Master Malifika - 2022.Mistress Class with Collette Pervette - Fall 2022International School of Temple Arts: ISTA- Fall 2023Classically trained in massage therapy, yoga, tantra, reiki and meditation - it is important to note that I bring in an element of healing to my bdsm sessions.. I am far more interested in the growth & self development qualities that comes from d/s dynamics than focusing on a quick release. Diving into this work is deeply cathartic & can improve the quality of ones life which is why I prefer on going relationships developed over time instead of one time visits. Do you offer Fly Me To You experiences?
Yes! A non-refundable 50% deposit, in addition to travel expenses (Ubers, First/Business Class flights) are due upon booking to secure our time together. Touring & FMTY rates: $550 per hour West Coast: 4hr minimum / Midwest: 6 hr minimum / East Coast: 8 hr minimum Europe: 14 hour minimumInquire about a specific location that is not listed. Do you offer online services?
Yes, I offer 30-60 min online kinky sessions via Zoom. Send an application & specify you want an online session. No introductory call needed. $150 per half hourIf you are a virgin, desire to improve your communication skills with your partner or want to know how to create a bdsm scene we can work together to build your intimacy skills. Sessions will be conducted via Zoom. $250 per hour / inquire about 3 - 12 month packages1:1 Intimacy & Empowerment Coaching
Dominatrix Mentoring
If you are new to domination and want to know how to get in touch with your inner domme whether it be professionally or personally we can dive deep & work towards creating more confidence & skill learning to get you there.Inquire privately through my email: kaliphalove@proton.meWoman only at this time. Intro call: $150 per hour - this is a discovery call that will leave you with tangible tools & to see if we are a match in mentorship.3 month In Person Immersion: $3500Virtual: $250 per hour via ZoomDo You offer discounts or packages?
Yes, please inquire on your application to privately to learn rates. 1 in person session is required in order to receive package rates.It is not required, but greatly appreciated. I accept payments such as Cashapp, Amazon gift card, Throne Wishlist items & cash.